A new, New Year resolve

There are so many questions in life that we are unable to get the right type of answers, when I was a kid, I saw my neighbor smoking and told my dad that he is bad, but, he said he has a bad habit, but not a bad man. But, the type of imprints that we get through the movies are very powerful, many of the movies that had gone in the head kept reiterating, that money is bad, somebody does something for money, we consider that to be bad, we are finding it very difficult to draw a line, what is good and what is bad?

On the one hand, we say lying is bad, but we are sometimes comfortable lying and also seem to get away with it, we also have justification for whatever we do, what looked easily like a bad thing to do, slowly when we grew up starting seeing them in grey, may not be really bad , but ……

Yes, once we grow, we grow with knowledge, and with the increase in knowledge we happen to only become unsure with many things, but still, if we think otherwise, like, only because of fear one needs to be doing things rightfully, then again we go back to the stone age of might is right, like, now it will become smart is right, if I could commit some mistake and getaway from law smartly, then I am right.

Here, let us in this New Year therefore resolve to audit our activities and happening.

We will maintain a sheet of paper and every day evening, right what happened to us, and what we did, let it be the list of all those activities that come closer to our conscience.

Say, if we lie, if we did not pay a tip, or parked in a pay park area and came without paying, or deliberately gave a promise knowingly pretty well that we will not keep the promise up etc.,

And let us also maintain a note of all those things that happened to us, like getting a headache for no reason, unnecessarily wasting money on something. Our valuable or not so valuable things getting lost. If we track such trivial activities and such trivial guilty things also, then over a period of time, there is a possibility that we may get an insight as to whether there is any scientific connection, it may not reveal itself immediately, but let us make a beginning.

By being in this group, one need not disclose everything, but let us be true to our own self, and let us share in a broad conceptual manner at the end of the year as to what had been our learning outcome then.

If you wish to join, please reply to this from the email id to which a yahoo group invitation will be sent to you.

Let us this year, make a new resolution which is going to help us discover something new, may be it will help us or our future generation.

who will fill the vacuum of a super hero?

There is an inherent desire in all of us to see something extraordinary, all of us, at the base of the heart do not want to accept science, we need something beyond science, some miracle, some inexplicable phenomena, which makes us wake up, we want even from science something unexplainable. this want in us is being constantly filled by something or the other, once upon a time it was the mythological figures, then it was the characters in the drama, then it was characters in the cartoons, books and novels, then it was the film stars. Today, all this is over, we have made them humans, we have brought them down from their pedestal. Now, who are what is going to get to the centre stage?

Life and afterlife coaching

It takes two for salsa, goes the saying, Traditioinally India had the strength of the joint family and the rest of the family contributed their might to make somebody successful and an hero. it took a chanakya to make a chandragupta and bring the Nanda dynasty to an end. It took an Aristotle to make an Alexander.

Today, it is all the more important for us to develop a mentor a father figure, who should be wise enough to keep track and show the changeless personality which is behind the changing personality a person lives through.

It takes some EGO to execute things and become a winner, whatever you mean by it, and it takes the strength of a EGO less person to power the ego to execute, so, it is two contradictory characteristics which can team up and should team up to make a greatest hero.

Do you want such a Ego less person to power you to success?

Sundararajan, you're a Green Giant

Can one person make a big difference? Absolutely, and you're doing it! From separating your recyclables to carpooling, you're well on your way to having the green lifestyle all wrapped up (in recycled paper?). But there is room for improvement, you know. Good thing you have the drive and the initiative to keep seeking out more ways to make a difference! You're probably going to be the one to start a clean air initiative in your neighborhood or to install that new low-flow toilet. Can't you see it?

Of course you've still got a few big lifestyle changes to make before you can declare yourself perfectly green, but that's okay. Who doesn't love a little challenge? Keep making your life eco-friendly — the planet needs you!

one more decision making

To take the car or the bike to office, whether to buy a share on the intra day trade in the market, factors influence the first one are, weather, like if it is too hot, take the car, but if it is overcast, then it is good to have a bike drive, but if it rains, then car is better, but, how will we know, whether it will rain or not?

will traffic slow me down? it will depend on the type of route i will take, if i take a certain route then car is faster or else bike is faster, but what about the dust and the pollution, okay, what about addiction, if I start taking car on all days, then i may not take my bike at all!~! this is what happened when i bought the bike for my cycle.
Then the cost factor, then the parking problem!!!

To do or not to do!!

The place of work in life!

It seems, that certain factors in life has taken more space than the rest, why should money and work take centre stage in life, if you list all that you really want in life, things will not come to our conscious mind, then we will suddenly remember that we should have done this or that!
It is important therefore to place proper emphasize on things in our life.

I have wasted time in my life, trying to influence people, i should not have bothered too much about them, if only I could have been a little cold, my life would have been more peaceful, you can hear people saying this.

Are you saying this?