A new, New Year resolve

There are so many questions in life that we are unable to get the right type of answers, when I was a kid, I saw my neighbor smoking and told my dad that he is bad, but, he said he has a bad habit, but not a bad man. But, the type of imprints that we get through the movies are very powerful, many of the movies that had gone in the head kept reiterating, that money is bad, somebody does something for money, we consider that to be bad, we are finding it very difficult to draw a line, what is good and what is bad?

On the one hand, we say lying is bad, but we are sometimes comfortable lying and also seem to get away with it, we also have justification for whatever we do, what looked easily like a bad thing to do, slowly when we grew up starting seeing them in grey, may not be really bad , but ……

Yes, once we grow, we grow with knowledge, and with the increase in knowledge we happen to only become unsure with many things, but still, if we think otherwise, like, only because of fear one needs to be doing things rightfully, then again we go back to the stone age of might is right, like, now it will become smart is right, if I could commit some mistake and getaway from law smartly, then I am right.

Here, let us in this New Year therefore resolve to audit our activities and happening.

We will maintain a sheet of paper and every day evening, right what happened to us, and what we did, let it be the list of all those activities that come closer to our conscience.

Say, if we lie, if we did not pay a tip, or parked in a pay park area and came without paying, or deliberately gave a promise knowingly pretty well that we will not keep the promise up etc.,

And let us also maintain a note of all those things that happened to us, like getting a headache for no reason, unnecessarily wasting money on something. Our valuable or not so valuable things getting lost. If we track such trivial activities and such trivial guilty things also, then over a period of time, there is a possibility that we may get an insight as to whether there is any scientific connection, it may not reveal itself immediately, but let us make a beginning.

By being in this group, one need not disclose everything, but let us be true to our own self, and let us share in a broad conceptual manner at the end of the year as to what had been our learning outcome then.

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Let us this year, make a new resolution which is going to help us discover something new, may be it will help us or our future generation.